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I can take time off work, but I do not want to spend $5,000 on this trip.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I make a very good living compared to her, and just&#8230;\n    <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>Read the full article <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marketwatch.com\/story\/my-wife-wants-me-to-spend-5-000-to-attend-her-cousins-destination-wedding-i-dont-want-to-go-ive-only-met-him-three-times-am-i-being-selfish-14d6358?mod=personal-finance\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">here<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Quentin, My wife and I are fighting over money \u2014 actually, a wedding, to be exact. She wants us and our daughter to fly across the country to attend her cousin\u2019s destination wedding. 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